Although it has already broken up, sometimes, especially when a person’s night, I always think of the old lover, remembering the bits and pieces that I used to get along with, sometimes I miss it, sometimes I miss it… Do you always think of an old lover at a certain time? Even if you have a new object around you, do you still remember the old lover? Some people even want to contact the old lover after three trips, and want to greet a good or just say sorry. I always miss the old lover in my heart. No, there is no sense of security. A female friend talks to me about her recent troubles. It turns out that her current boyfriend has a habit of contacting old lover, although she has told her boyfriend about her feelings, her boyfriend. I also promised that she would change the habit of contacting the old lover. But not long after, she was discovered that her boyfriend still tried to contact the old lover, and this time it was not the one she had known before, but an old lover who had been with him for more than three years. She was very worried about this matter, even if her boyfriend argued that she just wanted to contact her to inform her about her current situation, and had no other intentions, please ask her to trust him. He said: Because I drank some wine and passed the place I used to go to, I suddenly remembered her. I wanted to tell her about the place I was not right before and wanted to apologize to her. She didn’t understand why her boyfriend had to specifically talk to the old lover about these things. Isn’t his heart still okay for her? Maybe he had done something that was sorry for her and caused the two to break up. Isn’t he still worried about it now? Her boyfriend’s statement is: I really didn’t want to do anything with her. I just thought that in that relationship, I did a lot of childish and immature behavior, and now I really want to say sorry to her. I think this is a ritual for me! Many people will regret that after breaking up, why can’t they be beautiful? Maybe don’t say goodbye, maybe riding a donkey to find a horse to embarrass the other party, but now because of their maturity, thinking and practices have changed, and looking for opportunities to meet each other, and then say something to prove that they have changed, no longer It was the bad man who hurt her that year. Bringing in a new relationship is hard to avoid saying wrong things, doing wrong things, being wrong, choosing the wrong direction, etc. Many things we always feel regret afterwards, thinking that if we give ourselves another chance, we must Will make different choices. But the reality is that you can’t change what happened before, but you can choose what might happen in the future. Not everyone can perfectly decide every choice, even if the result is not what we expected, we have to accept it, and wait until the correction, I hope to avoid the same situation next time. Health. If you feel that your life is always regretting things, I feel that you must stop blaming others first, and then think carefully about whether you made the wrong choice in which part of your own, so that similar endings happen again and again. A lot of things are man-made. If you don’t come out from the past, you can let the lover who is with you now suffer. Everyone has the right to start a new relationship, but you have to really get out of the past, and say it. If you don’t contact, don’t connect again. No matter how many fate you have in the past, even if you think you can still be a good friend with old love, your current lover is not confident, insecure, and can’t accept you. The old lover keeps in touch, then you should think about how the final result will continue to contact the old lover. Pity to leave to others around, don’t bother old love. Maybe you will say that you are already very careful about your current lover, but the standard is only known to you, if the other person doubts your love because of your behavior, and therefore feels Pain, injury or uneasiness, because you make him hurt, hurt and upset. Instead of moving and thinking about repenting with the old lover, it is better to transfer this mentality to the current lover! Let the pity and favor of the previous lover regret it, and leave it to the incumbent lover! As for the old lover, let go of others! Maybe people are free to enjoy the other sky they belong to! Repent, it is better to transfer this mentality to the current lover! Let the pity and favor of the previous lover regret it, and leave it to the incumbent lover! As for the old lover, let go of others! Maybe people are free to enjoy the other sky they belong to! Repent, it is better to transfer this mentality to the current lover! Let the pity and favor of the previous lover regret it, and leave it to the incumbent lover! As for the old lover, let go of others! Maybe people are free to enjoy the other sky they belong to!